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Avoid These 7 Work Taboos |
Taboo No. 1: Kissing a co-worker
The likely scenario (设定的某一特定情节): You've had a crush (紧抱，尤指强有力地拥抱) on your co-worker since you started working a few months ago. Now it's the holiday party and you've taken full advantage of the open bar and the liquid courage it's provided you to flirt (调情，卖俏，不认真地对待) with your fling (一时的纵情欢乐参). Before you know it, you're locking lips for all to see -- and talk about come Monday morning. If this sounds familiar, you're not alone; 35 percent of workers in a 2007 CareerBuilder.com survey admitted to kissing co-worker.
Our advice: If you can't restrain your desires to smooch (亲吻) your colleague, at least do yourself the favor of waiting until you're behind closed doors.
Taboo No. 2: Lying about your credentials (资历，证明)
You've read the stories in the newspapers -- CEOs, celebrities (名人) and ordinary workers alike are fired every day for one common crime: lying. In a recent CareerBuilder.com survey, one candidate invented a school that didn't exist, while another went as far as submitting samples of work -- that actually belonged to the interviewer. Thirty-eight percent of workers surveyed indicated they had embellished (润色，过分修饰) their job responsibilities, 18 percent lied about their skill sets and 10 percent lied about their academic degrees.
Our advice: Whether it's about your education, experience or previous employers, fudging (捏造) anything on your résumé is never a good idea.
Taboo No. 3: Wearing inappropriate clothing
How many times have you heard, "Dress for the job you want, not the job you have?" Yet how many times do we see this mantra (颂歌，咒语) avoided in our offices? Something tells me that the marketing assistant from the 15th floor doesn't strive for a career in prostitution, so why is she dressing that way? Not only does dressing inappropriately at work send the message that you don't care about your professional image, it also hinders your chances of moving up the corporate ladder (职业发展) . In a recent CareerBuilder.com survey, 41 percent of employers said that people who dress professionally tend to be promoted more often than others in their organization.
Our advice: Follow the mantra -- and mean it.
Taboo No. 4: Gossiping (说闲话；说流言蜚语)
Rumors in the workplace are like gasoline on a trashcan (垃圾桶) fire -- they spread ... fast. While lighthearted (快乐的，心情愉快的) conversations around the water cooler are one thing, standing around dishing (闲谈，尤指讲闲话) about your co-workers is another. Unfortunately, it's a common scenario in most corporate cultures: 19 percent of workers in a 2007 CareerBuilder.com survey said they have spread a rumor about a fellow employee.
Our advice: Co-workers who gossip or spread ugly rumors can negatively impact the work environment. Do your best to stay clear of these people. If you can't get away, at least avoid engaging in the tittle-tattle.
Taboo No. 5: Drinking too much ... inside or outside the office
It's not the 1960s, people. This means it is not OK to keep a bottle of whiskey in your desk drawer and pour yourself a drink every time you want to celebrate, glower (怒视) or otherwise. Employees seem to be confused on this standard office rule, as 31 percent of those surveyed by CareerBuilder.com admitted to tipping (倾斜) the bottle at work.
Our advice: Unless you're having a party in the office (approved by management), save the libations (饮酒) for happy hour. Even then, always drink responsibly.
Taboo No. 6: Forgetting someone's name
Have you ever been in a meeting with an important client and, to your horror, when you introduce him to your boss you can't remember the client's name? Such a grave mistake is not only taboo, it's embarrassing. The easiest way to overcome this gaffe is by asking the nameless client if he's met your boss, Albert Hanson. Hopefully, your client will respond by introducing himself.
Our advice: Forgetting a name has happened to everyone. The best way to recover is by trying something like the aforementioned tactic. If your plan backfires, however, the best thing to do is apologize and admit your mistake.
Taboo No. 7: E-mail mishaps
Whether it's hitting "reply all" on accident, sending an e-mail to the wrong person or making adverse comments for all to see, examples of e-mail mess-ups are endless. Be careful when it comes to e-mail; it's not private and can be the quickest way to end your career if you misuse it.
Our advice: Never say anything in an e-mail you don't want broadcast to the world. Also, keep e-mail use to a minimum and give a little face-to-face time a try once in awhile.
Rachel Zupek is a writer and blogger for CareerBuilder.com. She researches and writes about job search strategy, career management, hiring trends and workplace issues.